Sunday, December 30, 2012

Gwen's New Ride

Christmas is the same date every year but this one seemed to creep up on us out of nowhere!

Jesse and I have much to be thankful for this year: a beautiful healthy baby, a new home, our health, a wonderful job, and a new car!

When we made our first visit to Ryan House back in March, my mother-in-law, mother, and I were loading Gwen's heavy non-collapsable wheelchair into the back of our SUV (yes, it took all 3 of us!).  At that exact moment, Chip Stoecker pulled up and told us he was the store manager for Ability Center, a company dedicated to mobility products.  We held on to Chip's card, but we weren't exactly in the market to make the transition to a wheelchair van at that time.  

A couple months passed and Chip invited us to Ability Center's open house.  Jesse and I test drove some wheelchair vans and met with some of the store personnel to discuss potential conversion possibilities that would best suit our needs.  We took our time.  In fact we took 6 months.   After all, this was going to be a huge permanent purchase.  During those 6 months, Chip brought 3 different brands of vans to our home to test drive.  We decided on a Toyota Sienna with a Rear Entry Ramp.  Why Rear Entry you might ask?  Well, handicap parking spaces are not always readily available, and when they are, there isn't always enough space for a side entry ramp to fold out.  

Let me paint a scenario........If there wasn't a handicap space available and we had a side entry ramp and I was alone with Gwen (which is 75% of the time), I would have to:
A) unload Gwen at our destination (shopping mall, grocery store, Dr. office, etc.) leave her alone and go find somewhere to park, 
B) unload Gwen near an open parking space and hope she doesn't get hit by a passing vehicle while she waits for me to park the van,
C) find two open spaces next to one another and hope no one parks next to us so I can freely access the ramp.  

Original Floor & 3rd Row Before Conversion
Ability Center works with BraunAbility, a manufacturer of wheelchair accessible vans and wheelchair lifts.  Looking through their available inventory of already converted vans, Jesse and I weren't satisfied with what was available.  If this was going to be our primary permanent vehicle, we weren't interested in settling even if that meant waiting on a van just because of color!  Our patience paid off, and Chip was able to get us the perfect van...but it wasn't converted.  So how does that seem perfect?  Chip was able to locate a 2013 Toyota Sienna XLE that was purchased from a local dealer and returned with only 200 miles on it and lucky for us it had to be resold at a lesser value because it was considered USED!  Chip sent the van off to BraunAbility for conversion in Kalamazoo, Michigan and after 6 weeks, our family Christmas present arrived December 21!  


  
We would like to thank the Ability Center for all of their help and time through this process.  Not once did we feel any pressure or feel rushed into making a decision we may have later regretted.  Not only did we get an AWESOME wheelchair van, we formed a wonderful friendship with Grandpa Chip!

 On behalf of Jesse, Gwen, Quinten, and myself, we wish you all a very HAPPY NEW YEAR!
FBC CHRISTMAS 2012

Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Quintsel & Gwenel

Quinten and Gwen went as a duo this Halloween, Hansel and Gretel!
   
Fall Festival @ FBC
Trick or Treating and Cookie Decorating!
      

Quinten's Baptism


St. Anne's Catholic Church
Gilbert, Arizona
October 27, 2012

    

    
Godmother: Diana McDonald                  Godfather: Thomas Cody McDonald
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Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Thank You FBC!!!

It has been a long time since I have posted just about Gwen and I realize that I have neglected to share all of the FUN activities Gwen has been able to do thanks to our involvement with the Foundation for Blind Children (her Preschool)! 

Below is a compilation of pictures of all the things we have done both past and present!  

Halloween 2011
Little Gwen Peep and Daddy fishing for toys!
   

Christmas 2011
Gwen and her BFF Kaylee with Santa 

Valentine's Day Sock Hop 2012
Gwen's cute poodle skirt (courtesy of Gma Becky) and a rose fit for a Princess (courtesy of Daddy)
   

Farm Day 2012
Gardening, picking strawberries, touching beats, bunnies, and eggs
    
    
  

Mother's Day 2012
Hand painted flower bag 
 

Phoenix Children's Museum 2012
Touching new textures, playing chef, painting, and swimming through 2500 pool noodles
  
   

Sunday, September 23, 2012

Many Blessings

8 weeks ago Jesse and I held eachother's hands, took a deep breath, and walked back through the very same doors where our lives were forever changed three and a half years ago. To avoid any complications with this birth, my doctor monitored this baby diligently with ultrasounds and stress tests weekly for 8 weeks prior to my delivery.  Though the baby and I had passed each test with flying colors, part of me still anticipated the worst.  Thank goodness Jesse was there to ease my mind with his cheesy poses in his "exterminator scrubs"!

             

Around 10:30 AM I was wheeled into surgery while Jesse waited outside the door.  As the anesthesiologist was prepping my back for the spinal block, the nurses were talking about the latest entertainment gossip, the doctors chattered about their poorly played golf games, and I was about to have a Panic Attack!  As the needle entered my spine, a rush of emotion flooded over me and I began to have flashback's of Gwen's delivery.  I started sobbing profusely and I could barely catch my breath.  I yelled out for someone to hold my hands and two nurses came to the rescue, one for each hand.  Jesse entered the room, sat by my side, and pretty soon we were about to meet our new baby!

   

After only two days of recovery, my doctor asked if we were ready to go home, and without hesitation we said YES!

If you read back a few blogs, Gwen had a trial stay at Ryan House.  We knew this would be our best option for Gwen's care, so we signed her up for 6 days at "camp".  I didn't want her to feel alone or abandoned so I made sure she had plenty of visitors!  The staff had such a good time with Gwen, they gave Gwen her very first manicure and pedicure....and she loved all of the attention!

Have you ever met SUPERMAN? I know him pretty well ;)  His name is Jesse McDonald and I'd be happy to introduce you anytime! While Gwen was back at preschool and I was at home healing and learning how to breastfeed, Jesse was renovating our new home!  That's right, I said NEW HOME (well, new to us)!  Not only did we have a baby August 6th, we also closed on our new house the same day!  With only three weeks to move out our rental and lack of sleep from having a newborn,  Jesse spent most of his two weeks off of work at the new house ripping up old carpet, tearing out overgrown landscaping, and moving all of our furniture!

Thank you to all of our visitors, to those that helped with Gwen, to everyone who helped with the move, and for all of the scrumptious meals!

Quinten has been a wonderful blessing to our family and this experience has been very healing.  He is now 8 weeks old, 12 pounds, an avid eater, and a good sleeper.  Quite frankly we couldn't ask for a better baby!










Wednesday, August 8, 2012

Brosis Revealed!

Quinten Thomas McDonald
August 06, 2012 
11:10 A.M.
8 lbs., 4 oz.
21 inches

Sunday, July 29, 2012

What's It Going To Be?

7 More Days Until Brosis Reveals Himself/Herself!

38 Weeks Pregnant with Gwen
38 Weeks Pregnant with Brosis